The notion of infidelity has changed over time in parallel with the upheaval of values and the evolution of the place of women in society. Most often this act arises from an evolution of the feelings and / or frustrations felt by one of the members or the 2 in an unsatisfactory relationship for various reasons. New technologies (Internet …) facilitate extra-marital encounters which are parallel (often sexual) relationship with the legitimate couple and actively contribute to the increase of this phenomenon. Nonetheless, infidelity remains a violation of the duty of fidelity between spouses which remains a value dear to Western societies. Many therapists disagree on the definition of the word infidelity which can ultimately destroy a couple or strengthen it. Everything will depend on the degree of investment of each in the relationship and its own values.
I offer you 2 testimonies of people who have experienced this painful ordeal. They also explain how their respective couples rebounded.
Witness 1: Myriam 26-year-old couple since 2-year-old mother of a child tells how she struggled through this ordeal and what strategies did she use to overcome her pain and save her couple